{"id":90,"date":"2004-06-27T14:01:00","date_gmt":"2004-06-27T14:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/beansoup.martinitime.org\/?p=90"},"modified":"2012-11-14T19:48:07","modified_gmt":"2012-11-14T19:48:07","slug":"90","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/beansoup.martinitime.org\/?p=90","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>The Bean meets a horse<\/h2>\n<p>   or six, and a pile of dogs and a lot of kitties and enjoys herself at Ariel&#8217;s house. We bounced on the trampoline. Dr. John and I talked about holistic veterinary practices and the girls played side by side and sometimes together. They took toys from each other and Ariel showed the Bean how to walk a three legged kitty on a leash.  The Bean watered their plants and everyone talked on the phone.  I had a good time too.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m getting much better about driving in the Barrington\/Lake Barrington\/Barrington Hills and Lake Zurich areas and the Bean loves the car.We&#8217;ll be taking our maiden voyage to the mall, just the two of us in a couple of weeks. <\/p>\n<p>She was so funny with the horses. She petted them and pulled back if they got mouthy but squealed happily the entire  time. She was overwhelmed with a huge pile of doggies and rolled around in them and got licked muchly. She&#8217;s just so fearless it amazes me. I&#8217;m not the only one teaching things in this relationship.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve started putting away toys. This causes a tantrum sometimes because she is in her negative and rebellious 2 year old stage. It is a difficult time, but neccesary. She realized early she&#8217;s her own self and she&#8217;s making that point to everyone now.  She has also begun to ask for everything within sight in the grocery store. Right now, that&#8217;s an easy one for me, because she just isn&#8217;t going to get it and I don&#8217;t feel ambivalent about that at all. Harder for me, is when she visits someones house and sees a toy she likes and asks for it for several days. But then James and I discuss whether getting said toy (right now it is  a &#8216;new baby tad lily&#8221; which is the girl version of baby tad) will be a spoiling thing or something that will help her in some way. And of course, whether it is to be had cheaply on ebay or at a garge sale.<\/p>\n<p>She also recognizes my facial expressions and identifies them correctly. Saying &#8220;sad mommy&#8221; or &#8216;angry mommy&#8221;<br \/>or &#8220;determined mommy&#8221;  and &#8220;happy mommy.&#8221; The first when she isn&#8217;t nice to the kitties, the second when she knows she&#8217;s done something she shouldn&#8217;t do and I put a scowl on my face (but most of the time I&#8217;m doing that so I don&#8217;t crack up and spoil the discipline). Determined mommy shows up with the putting away of toys and happy mommy is when we are playing and snuggling and being silly.<\/p>\n<p>Miss Bean also spoke to her Grandmama Jackie for the first time. Miss Jackie called her a little butterfly and the Bean said  &#8220;I&#8217;m a little butterfly flap flap.&#8221;  And then a little while later &#8220;Happy Birthday. Need some birthday cake?&#8221;  It was Jackie&#8217;s birthday and I called her. It was a good conversation for everyone. <\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re on our way out again now that James has finished doing his yard thing.  Or maybe we&#8217;ll fill up  the wading pool.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Bean meets a horse or six, and a pile of dogs and a lot of kitties and enjoys herself at Ariel&#8217;s house. We bounced on the trampoline. Dr. John and I talked about holistic veterinary practices and the girls played side by side and sometimes together. 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